4 Steps To Take When Your Aging Parents Need Help

By Swindon Link - 2 December 2021

Opinion and Features

For as long as we can remember, our parents have been the ones we run to whenever life gets rough. We rely on them to set things straight. When we were kids, they were our “superheros'' who seemed to know everything about anything. As we get older, they become our rock, but eventually, the issues that come with old age are inevitable, and we switch roles with them.
It’s easy to help them if the symptoms are not alarming, but when they become almost constant, or when they need help getting up from their chairs, that’s when we need to make drastic changes that we know are in their best interests. To help you make the best decisions for your loved ones, here are 4 of the most important steps to take when your aging parents need help.


  1. Determine the Type of Help They Need

To be able to offer help, you must learn which areas they need help with. Make sure they’re eating well, getting the medical support they need, taking their medication, and that their home is a safe environment for them according to their condition. Make the necessary changes to ensure their safety and comfort. Check that they’re eating healthy meals regularly by doing grocery shopping for them and regularly checking in.

  1. Understand How Much You Are Capable of Helping

After determining the type of help your parents need, the next step is to check how much you are able to contribute. This depends on several factors, including your health condition, your work schedule, how much time and money you can spare, as well as how much you can actually do yourself. If you are unable to provide them with the services they need yourself,  the best thing  to do is to move them to a home care facility. It will take some adjustments. You will need to do your research to find a suitable home, then make sure they are comfortable with the move and the staff. . The caregivers at Woking care home explain that seniors must feel at home at the facility they relocate to because their mental and psychological health have a huge effect on their health condition. Sometimes a home care facility can provide quality services, but if the residents don’t feel comfortable about the place their health status deteriorates.

  1. Clearly Explain the Situation to Them

Even though they may not be entirely on the ball, they’re still your parents and you must make sure they know you love and respect them, and that the decision is ultimately theirs. Honestly explain the whole picture to them and what you are able to help with. Be patient with them and let them talk about their concerns. You must be prepared that convincing them is going to take time and effort, because it’s difficult for them to admit they actually need help, and that you’re the one who has to make sure they’re getting what they need.

  1. Give Them the Support They Need

Our parents may not say it out loud, but they need to feel that everyone they love is there for them. They will not tell you they’re feeling lonely, but they probably are, so make sure all their loved ones are regularly visiting them. Show them how much you love them, and help them feel that you still need them as much as they need you.


Growing old is both beautiful and sad at the same time. It’s extremely difficult for people to admit how much help they need, especially when they’ve always been the caregivers. It’s time we gave back just a little bit of the unconditional love and support our loved ones have always given us by making sure they’re enjoying a comfortable and healthy life, while they’re feeling loved and valued.


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