Research has identified a range of key patronising phrases levelled at men by those who struggle with the idea that they might be every bit as competent in caring for children as women. “You’ve got him well trained” and “you’re doing that wrong” are the two phrases most guaranteed to wind dad up, according to a study of 2,000 dads by ChannelMum.com. The survey, has exposed the top 20 list of sayings including “are you babysitting?” and “it’s nice to see a man looking after the kids”. Comments such as “you’re such a softie” and “who ironed the kids’ clothes?” will also infuriate many fathers. And half of British dads admit they get annoyed if others make comments about their parenting if they’re out with their little ones without mum. ChannelMum.com founder Siobhan Freegard said: “Almost all parenting issues still only focus on mum’s involvement - so no wonder dads feel fed up. “Modern men are doing more parenting than ever before so that’s why it’s frustrating for dads when people are still surprised they can care effectively for their kids.” The majority of British dads believe their parenting load is shared 50/50 with their partner – with the remainder thinking it’s more of a 70/30 split. And just under half agree that men have a bad reputation when it comes to parenting. In fact, 57 per cent of respondents believe people think they aren’t as skilled a parent as their child’s mum. ChannelMum.com’s Siobhan Freegard added: “Mum maybe the word but we all need to think more carefully about the words we use to describe dads and what they do. "In a society rightly fighting or equality, let’s show we appreciate all dads do this Father’s Day.” THE TOP 20 PHRASES GUARANTEED TO WIND DAD UP
- You've got him well trained
- You're doing it wrong, it should be like this
- Are you disappointed the baby wasn't a boy?
- Are you babysitting today?
- It's nice to see a man looking after the kids
- Bet you can't wait until your wife comes back
- Wow, your baby is massive!
- Get used to never having sex again now the kids are here
- Who ironed the kids' clothes?
- Did your wife lay out the kids' outfits for you?
- There's always one! (if you arrive late somewhere)
- You're actually quite good at putting on a nappy
- Oh, you managed to make it here on time
- You're such a hands-on dad
- You're such a softie
- Where is your partner?
- Oh, you managed to remember to pack his PE kit
- Is it hard to work full time with a baby?
- Your baby seems really happy with you
- It must be hard for you to get up early with the kids
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