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Help a child build up a positive bank of memories
         preschool                THE brain is like a bank account

         gymnastics               which stores away experiences,
                                  and nostalgic memories are an
                                  important part of what makes us
         where an early           human. 
                                   A groundbreaking project -
         start makes a world      Memory Makers - links children
         of difference!           aged 10 to 12 with adult volunteers
                                  to make memories to put into that
                                  bank account, there to be drawn
                                  upon when needed.
                                   According to group co-founder Lyn
                                  Hartman, there isn’t another similar
                                  project in Britain. She said: “A happy
                                  childhood is taken for granted,
                                  but for some it can be a time of   Memory Maker volunteers Jackie Evans and Stuart Westley
                                  stress. Perhaps a child doesn’t get
                                  enough attention because of family   Swindon with his fiancé. He said:   “We just chat a lot about everyday
                                  breakdown, or there is instability at   “I was looking for an excuse to be   things; it’s all about listening and
                                  home which causes anxiety, or he   a kid again once a week. We went   building a positive self-image.” 
                                  or she might be left out at school   to the park recently and my child   Memory Makers Programme Co-
                                  because he or she isn’t confident or   invented a game looking for bird   ordinator, Clare Armagan said:
                                  feels a failure.”          boxes; we just chatted as we went   “We believe that happy memories
                                   Volunteers and children meet   along. We’ve been to crazy golf,   are crucial in psychological and
                                  regularly to enjoy inexpensive   went to a Chinese restaurant to try   emotional growth. Remembering
                                  activities such as going on a walk   different foods and we’ve started   good times can help cushion
                                  around Coate Water, a game of   writing a story together.   children from the challenges they
                                  football, flying a kite, playing board   “As our friendship is on a voluntary  face every day, and, crucially, may
         daily classes for the under 5’s
                                  games or doing crafts.  It could   basis, which has been agreed by a   give them hope for the future.
         01793 822262             mean going to the Wyvern Theatre   parent, I don’t have an official role,   “Anybody can be a Memory Maker.
                                  or Roves Farm for a treat.
                                                             what we do is on his terms. He feels  In our first group of volunteers we
         www.esprit-gymnastics.co.uk  Stuart Westley, 32, became a   comfortable and does not need to   have men and women ranging from
                                  Memory Maker after he moved to   try to act older than he is.”  18 years old to the retired; some are
                                                               Jackie Evans, 63, read the story   experienced with children, others
                                                             about Memory Makers in the June   have had little contact.
                                                             Link, just as she was retiring from   “Volunteers come from all walks
                                                             teaching. She said: “I don’t have   of life. The children involved with
                                                             grandchildren yet and with my   the Memory Makers programme
                                                             experience I thought I could be a   are so different from each other, so
                                                             Memory Maker.               we need a broad range of people to
                                                               “But it’s a very different role to   match them with.
                                                             being a primary school teacher; the   “The most important thing
                                                             preparation course was the most   that can be offered is time and a
                                                             interesting training on keeping   willingness to put the child at the
                                                             children safe that I’ve ever had.  centre of the relationship - plus the
                                            Please call us at   “We do what the child wants   ability to have lots of fun.”
                                            Windmill Hill to   to do and I suggest things we   The next Memory Makers training
                                           arrange a nursery   could try together. We went to a   course takes place in late February.
                                             tour just for   craft session at Studley Grange   For details, contact Clare Armagan
                                            you and we will   recently and she had to encourage   on 01793 729748 or email memory.
                                            look forward to   me to get my hands sticky.  [email protected]
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